Choices.

Choices. There are to many of those in life. Good choices, bad choices, right choices, wrong choices, large choices, small choices, easy choices, hard choices and of course life changing choices. Honestly... every thing that happens to us is based on past or present choices. Some of us end up in jail because we made a wrong choices. Others of us end up running multi-million dollar company's; all because we made the "right choices"... or so everyone says. OK now... here's the problem. What really is the "right choice"? Frankly, I have no idea. Right now is such a strange period in our lives. We are stuck in transition; no longer children or teenagers... but not yet adults. And yet, we are faced with some of the biggest choices we will ever have to make. Some of us are looking for adventure and travel, some for love, others for grad schools. We are setting up the frame work for our futures. Damn. Reality hits hard. Two years ago I never pictured my life to be how it is right now. Two years ago I was a completely different person. Who were you two years ago? What choices did you make that brought you here today? Are you happy? And what choices are you going to make right now? Think about two years from now. It seems so close.... and it is. But so much can change in that short time. This is my written contract that I am going to make the choice to live my life according to my own standards, rules and expectations. I also have a few goals that I want to accomplish in these up coming two years.
1. Go to a less privileged country and do humanitarian work.
2. Learn to appreciate the life I have been blessed with.
3. Attend cochella.
4. Raise and donate money to a orphanage in a another country.
5. Be someones best friend, when no one else will.
6. Run a half-marathon.
7. Greek Islands, Spain, and Italy
8. Make friends with someone completely different then me.
9. Volunteer more
10. Let go
11. Get into a PSY D graduate program
12. Start writing a book
13. Become a better person
14. Smile even when my day sucks
15. Forgive.... and actually FORGET. (I'm bad at that)
16. Buy a car on my own.
17. Sky diving....
18. Stick to this LIST
19. Fall in love with something
Now... these are some choices I hope to make in the next two year. And I know each and every one of these choices will influence my life and change me once again into someone else. Now its your turn... make a list of choices that you want to make in the next two years. Think about the person who you hope to be... and think about the choices you have to make in order to be there.
Good luck!!!
xoxo
Sanj
p.s. The "right choice".... isn't always the best choice.